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Nov 14, 2013 - 5:04 PM
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Senn555
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"A study on masculinity and aggression from the University of South Florida found that innocuous – yet feminine – tasks could produce profound anxiety in men. As part of the study, a group of men were asked to perform a stereotypically feminine act – braiding hair in this case - while a control group braided rope. Following the act, the men were given the option to either solve a puzzle or punch a heavy bag. Not surprisingly, the men who performed the task that threatened their masculinity were far more likely to punch the bag; again, violence serving as a way to reestablish their masculine identity. A follow-up had both groups punch the bag after braiding either hair or rope; the men who braided the hair punched the bag much harder. A third experiment, all the participants braided hair, but were split into two groups: those who got to punch the bag afterwards and those who didn’t. The men who were prevented from punching the bag started to show acute signs of anxiety and distress from not being able to reconfirm their masculinity.
It’s that precariousness – the ease of which one’s perceived manhood can be taken away that has profound physical and mental effects on men. The constant state of being on guard wears away at the body and spirit, contributing to numerous health issues. The stress and constant need to reassert one’s masculinity has been linked to hypertension, depression, anxiety and low self-esteem as well as an increased propensity for violence.
It is literally killing men by insisting they can never show weakness, never vary from the restrictive role laid out for them."
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"It is literally killing men by insisting they can never show weakness, never vary from the restrictive role laid out for them."
Just TRY getting one of them to believe this. It's an uphill battle.
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...that a topic as good as this will not get as many replies as it deserves.
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I've been reading everything here with great interest.
QUESTION:
WHAT IS A MAN?
WHAT IS "MASCULINE"?
ANSWER:
It's whatever you THINK.
IF your THINKING has been shaped by John Wayne, Clint Eastwood, Madison Avenue, porn stars, or your own father's abuses, you will have to struggle with your manhood as long as you live. NONE OF THOSE THINGS ARE TRUE!
I KNOW.
I struggled with my manhood for decades.
I WAS SHAPED BY THE MEDIA from my childhood!
Thankfully, with age, I have learned what it means to be a real man, and I've found my peace.
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Thanks, Josh!
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