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Aug 20, 2013 - 8:24 AM
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Solium
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Can't agree with not loaning or giving money to relatives. With ones you love, just give and don't expect anything back. period. If you expect something back then you don't really love them. I hate to see the world that would be if no one didn't loan good friends one relatives money during their needed times. When you care for people don't play a equal game, if you do your a low life in my books. Strangers are one thing, but you can't put a value with love ones or special friends.
As I stated before, I did use the word LOAN, as in expecting to be paid back or entering into an agreement. If you DO love your friends or family and value your relationship, DON'T do it. You have then put your relationship at risk. If you are compelled to give it away then as I stated and you as well, treat it as a gift. Don't expect it back.
It's sad that one must expect a friend or family member NOT to repay a loan. But we know that is the case. There really is no honor system in the western world. But at the same time, it's sad people love their money more than their family or friends, and are willing to end a relationship over it.
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I once got a significant loan from a friend in lieu of doing a cash advance on a credit card.
I was meant to pay it off monthly, but after 2 months of payments, I got antsy and, yes, did a cash advance on a credit card to pay the friend off immediately.
I just didn't want to risk the friendship over something like this.
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Don't microwave a hard-boiled egg.
(I learned that one the hard way!)
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The rudest employees are usually the ones whose nametag is hidden or missing.
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