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 Posted:   May 12, 2021 - 9:12 AM   
 By:   Solium   (Member)

There's been a big one at work for years. Unless I'm off, that isbig grin

LOL! When I was much younger I was a huge jerk at work. Never towards my co-workers but I used to give it right back to my supervisors. Nowadays I know not to burn bridges.

 
 
 Posted:   May 12, 2021 - 10:08 AM   
 By:   Last Child   (Member)

There's always going to be jerks at work, and no doubt we are all on someone's jerk list for doing something they didn't like. I know Henry was venting his frustration 10 years ago, and now again. But it's the people who are both real and good (not cliche or phoney good) that I find remarkable. There's a guy at work who's an angel, and everyone agrees.

 
 Posted:   May 12, 2021 - 1:47 PM   
 By:   Adam.   (Member)

I don't work with a jerk. I work with a stalker. (of course a stalker can be a jerk, too)

During slow periods at work he'll sit in a chair and stare at me for hours at a time. It never occurs to him to turn his chair and look in another direction. No, he stares directly at me. It's really creepy. He's also a compulsive invader of your privacy. He'll walk up behind you and stare at your computer screen right over your shoulder. Never mind that you could be reading a private email.

I look forward to his pending retirement.

 
 
 Posted:   May 12, 2021 - 3:20 PM   
 By:   henry   (Member)

I don't work with a jerk. I work with a stalker. (of course a stalker can be a jerk, too)

During slow periods at work he'll sit in a chair and stare at me for hours at a time. It never occurs to him to turn his chair and look in another direction. No, he stares directly at me. It's really creepy. He's also a compulsive invader of your privacy. He'll walk up behind you and stare at your computer screen right over your shoulder. Never mind that you could be reading a private email.

I look forward to his pending retirement.


Sorry to hear that Adam, that's pretty creepy! Maybe if we got my jerk and your stalker together it will take their focus off of us? Although my jerk is a guy too, but who cares!

 
 Posted:   May 12, 2021 - 4:45 PM   
 By:   Adam.   (Member)

I don't work with a jerk. I work with a stalker.

Sorry to hear that Adam, that's pretty creepy! Maybe if we got my jerk and your stalker together it will take their focus off of us? Although my jerk is a guy too, but who cares!


He's harmless enough and he actually helps me a lot when we are real busy but, damn, he creeps me out sometimes. I'm amazed someone his age (seventy-ish) doesn't know not to do that (staring endlessly at a co-worker).

 
 
 Posted:   May 12, 2021 - 9:50 PM   
 By:   dragon53   (Member)

I once applied for a newspaper job and was introduced to a female editor who was rude and obnoxious to me. I found out later she was rude and obnoxious to the other guy who also interviewed for the job. I got the job, and on my first day, I walked into the newspaper and, ironically, she was the first person I met. Having met her before, I said hello to her and started to talk to her, when she glared at me and walked off, refusing to talk to me. Later, I tried again to talk to her, and she told me to take a hike. I found out later she intensely hated the editor who hired me, so she took it out on me.

I found out she and her groupies were going around the company telling people, including the two publishers, I was rude and refused to talk to them. Later, I was at a newspaper convention, when a guy comes up to me and starts talking. He turned out to be one of my predecessors and told me they accused him of not talking to people, too---they were pulling the same scam against me. He said about them, "They're the meanest goddam people I ever met! I hate those goddam people!"

If the editor saw me alone, she would look around to make sure there were no witnesses, then she would try to ram me in hallway or stalk me in the newspaper library. She once sat in front of me and started to cough and wheeze like she was allergic to me. I went to another table. The next day, one of the librarians told me she saw the incident (she was working late and was short so couldn't be seen behind her screen) and wondered what the editor was doing. I told the librarian the editor had been treating me like that since I interviewed for the job.

A year later, the editor saw me sitting in the library again. She again barged in and with her jacket sleeve, she wiped the entire conference table clean of my germs. Now that she had sterilized the table, she then loudly sat down in front of me again. I again got up and went to another table. The editor then realized a librarian (a different one) was sitting a few feet away literally with his mouth open and saw the entire incident. Now knowing there was a witness, the editor never stalked me again.

 
 Posted:   May 12, 2021 - 10:49 PM   
 By:   Octoberman   (Member)

I swear to God, some people have no business ever leaving the house if they can't be professional (or can't be bothered to try).
It's very tempting to say that those types are all on the spectrum.

Whenever I had to endure people like that--and this is no joke--I said to myself, "What would Picard do?".
It helped more than you'd think.

 
 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 12:50 AM   
 By:   Tobias   (Member)

First and foremost a little background to explain things. I live out in the countryside in a small village where almost everyone knows everyone on the west coast of Sweden. I work at a grocery store and have worked there for almost 12 years now. This is a family owned store, my boss is just 3 years older than me and he took over from his own dad (actually he is the fourth generation who runs the store). Some years ago I was the only one who worked there who was not a part of the family because at that time my boss' mother worked at there and also my boss' son and daughter. Now my boss' daughter (who is the nicest person you can imagine) have left the family business and work elsewhere. And now they have hired some other people so I am not the only one anymore who is not from the family.

Anyway my boss' son is someone who I can sometime get angry at (and by the way I am not the only one) and the reason is that he is someone who does not show up in time. When you go to work you show up in time and not much later than you supposed to but that is exactly what he does. Sometimes he can show up several hours later that he is supposed to do. But since he is the son of the boss my boss can only be angry at him to a certain degree because he can`t treat him like others. And that irritates me.

To my boss' son`s defense when he actually do show up he is really great to work with, the teamwork between us is flawless and he is such a nice guy but the fact remains that you really do not know when he will show up, will he show ut in 15 minutes or 3 hours and 15 minutes, that`s something that really bothers me. But to call him a jerk is maybe a little to much of a stretch.

 
 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 8:37 AM   
 By:   OnyaBirri   (Member)

Have any of the Brits around here ever encountered a jark at wark?

 
 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 8:49 AM   
 By:   Prince Damian   (Member)

Have any of the Brits around here ever encountered a jark at wark?

Yep. They are called managers!
Shit attempt at lingo, onya.smile

 
 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 9:13 AM   
 By:   OnyaBirri   (Member)

Have any of the Brits around here ever encountered a jark at wark?

Yep. They are called managers!
Shit attempt at lingo, onya.smile


It was good enough for Cole Porter. (I realize that your credentials are nearly as impressive as Cole Porter's!)

 
 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 9:34 AM   
 By:   Prince Damian   (Member)

Have any of the Brits around here ever encountered a jark at wark?

Yep. They are called managers!
Shit attempt at lingo, onya.smile


It was good enough for Cole Porter. (I realize that your credentials are nearly as impressive as Cole Porter's!)


Cole who? It sounds like someone who makes the fire in posh people's mansions.

 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 9:54 AM   
 By:   Bill Carson, Earl of Poncey   (Member)

When I saw the title of this thread I was thinking of something else.

Must be me....


Yeah, where did i put that Rustler magazine ?
big grin

 
 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 10:01 AM   
 By:   OnyaBirri   (Member)

Have any of the Brits around here ever encountered a jark at wark?

Yep. They are called managers!
Shit attempt at lingo, onya.smile


It was good enough for Cole Porter. (I realize that your credentials are nearly as impressive as Cole Porter's!)


Cole who? It sounds like someone who makes the fire in posh people's mansions.


Brush up your Porter! And your Shakespeare!

 
 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 10:56 AM   
 By:   Prince Damian   (Member)



Brush up your Porter!!


Ah, a janitor

 
 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 4:11 PM   
 By:   henry   (Member)

When I saw the title of this thread I was thinking of something else.

Must be me....


Yeah, where did i put that Rustler magazine ?
big grin


Yeah, after I posted this I thought some people might think that.smile

 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 6:13 PM   
 By:   Sir David of Garland   (Member)

During slow periods at work he'll sit in a chair and stare at me for hours at a time. It never occurs to him to turn his chair and look in another direction. No, he stares directly at me. It's really creepy.

Yeesh. Have you tried staring back? That's worked for me sometimes.

 
 Posted:   May 13, 2021 - 8:18 PM   
 By:   Solium   (Member)

During slow periods at work he'll sit in a chair and stare at me for hours at a time. It never occurs to him to turn his chair and look in another direction. No, he stares directly at me. It's really creepy.

Yeesh. Have you tried staring back? That's worked for me sometimes.


If some bunny with a smirk was staring me down I'd be wearied out too.

 
 
 Posted:   May 18, 2021 - 11:42 AM   
 By:   henry   (Member)

The guy from my work has gone from a jerk to an asshole today!

 
 Posted:   May 18, 2021 - 12:06 PM   
 By:   jackfu   (Member)

"Space invaders". Coworkers who get a little too close when they're talking to you about a project you're working on with/for them. It's been a little better since "social distancing", but some still push it.

"Interceptors". Those who walk up to you and suddenly start talking without bothering to check first to see if you're busy. My desk is in a lab and a couple of folks are notorious to barge in and interrupt me. If they're rude about it, I just continue with what I'm doing and ignore them. Sometimes they get the message.
The same applies to folks whom inject themselves into a conversation you're having with someone else. You've just ended a sentence and they take the last few words, turn them into a question so that they make you feel like you have to tell them what you were saying, whether it's any of their business or not.

"Cultural-line-crossers" Some folks whom have not been in this country for long, either naively or intentionally sometimes bring their caste/class oriented culture with them and can be jerks. Especially if they're management and have others working for them; they sometimes treat them in ways that are acceptable in their home countries, but not here, expecting near subservience, etc. I've known some men whom were from one particular country where women are like 2nd class citizens and those men practically refused to be considered subordinates to women in higher management. That attitude didn't turn out well for those men.

 
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